1.
God creates the Right Woman (RW) for the Right Man (RM) and brings her
to him (Gen 2:22; 1 Cor 11:8-9). This establishes the relationship
prior to Marriage.
2. The Divinely ordained Right
Man – Right Woman relationship is set apart, sacred, and holy (Gen
2:24; 1 Thess 4:4).
3. RM-RW is a corporate system and a spiritual
union (ref. 1 Cor.
11:11). What happens to one happens to the other.
4. The bodies of RM-RW belong to each other (1
Cor 7:4).
5. The RM-RW relationship corresponds to the betrothal
period before Marriage (Jer 2:2; Hos 2:19-20; Matt 1:18).
6. The wrong man – wrong woman relationship is
more bitter than death (Eccl 7:26).
Sanctification
1. God
sanctifies the RM-RW relationship.
2. The spiritual union of
RM-RW is sanctified from sin, the world, and the cosmic system.
a.
Sin destroys love and weakens the harmony of the RM-RW relationship (Col
3:19).
b.
The influence of the world interferes with the purity of the RM-RW relationship.
c.
Satan attacks the RM-RW relationship through the Evil King and Prostitute
of Babylon (Gen 12:15; 20:2; 2 Sam 11:4; Rev 2:20).
3. RM and RW sanctify each
other (ref. Eph
5:25-26).
4. The RM-RW relationship
symbolizes the relationship between Christ and the Church (Jer 2:2; Hos
2:19; 2 Cor 11:2; Eph 5:25-32; ref. Col
3:15).
5. RM and RW must advance
through the phases of identification, soul compatibility, and harmonious
rapport through Experiential
Sanctification of executing the Christian Life (ref. 1
Pet 3:7, 8-9).
6. Sanctification of RM-RW
requires circumcision of the heart (Jer 4:4; Deut 10:16; 30:6; Jer. 9:25,
26; Rom 2:28, 29; Mk 7:21-23) and conscience (Heb 9:14; 10:22).
7. Circumcision
of the Jews symbolized sanctification of the RM for procreation of the
child of the promise through the RW (Gen 17:9-27).
8. The Edification
Complex of the Soul with the Intimacy
Room must be furnished to have a mature RM-RW relationship (Prov 5:15-20;
1 Thess 4:3-7; 1 Pet 3:4-9).
9. Mental and social unfaithfulness
precede sexual unfaithfulness (Prov 7:21-23; Matt 5:28; 2 Pet 2:14).
Testing
1. God rigorously tests the RM-RW
relationship (1 Cor 10:13-14; Rev 2:23, ref. testing
the kidneys and heart).
2. RM and RW must pass the
tests together even if they are geographically separated.
3. Biorhythms
are indicative of the daily tests that RM and RW must face.
4. The types of tests are
related to the phase of the relationship.
a.
Identification Phase – soul climax, paramours.
b.
Soul Compatibility – separation, temptation, reaction and distraction,
worldly friendships, forsaking all others, capacity for love tests, lovesickness
(SOS 2:5; 5:6, 8; Prov 5:8-11; 31:3).
c.
Harmonious rapport – personal and impersonal love; Cosmic System counterattacks
of the Evil King and Prostitute of Babylon (1 Cor 6:15-18; ref. 1
Pet 3:8-9).
Divine Punishment
1. Violations of the sanctity
of the RM-RW relationship brings Divine punishment.
2. RM and RW are punished
for failures in the relationship, including lack of love, respect, and
harmony (Eph 5:25, 28, 33; Col 3:19). Failures occur because of carnality,
hardness of the heart, grieving and quenching the Holy Spirit.
3.
Violation of the sanctity of the RM-RW relationship and Marriage can lead
to intensified punishment and death (Prov 5:8-11; 7:21-23).
a.
The Lord sanctified the RM-RW relationship of Abraham and Sarah by cursing
Pharaoh (Gen 12:17).
b. The
Lord struck Abimelech with sexual dysfunction and the Sin
Unto Death and his household with sexual dysfunction when he took Sarah
into his harem (Gen 20:3, 7, 17-18).
c.
David was punished severely for violating the RM-RW relationship of Uriah
and Bathsheba. He was punished physically, his household was filled
with violence (2 Sam 12:10), his baby died (2 Sam 12:14), and he never
had a Right Woman (ref. Abishag).
David's infirmities included:
Anxiety, depression (Ps 38:6, 17), bodily weakness, loss of vitality, dehydration
(Psa 32:3-4; 38:7), pain (internal and external) (Psa 38:2); guilt complex
(Psa 38:4), brunt of gossip (Ps 38:5), burning inflammation in loins (Ps
38:7), heart palpitations, blurred vision (Ps 38:10), ostracism (Ps 38:11),
conspiracy (Ps 38:12), problems hearing, learning, and speaking (Ps 38:13-14),
mortal enemies, lying foes, persecution (2 Sam 16:5-8; Ps 38:19), evil
harassers (Ps 38:20).
4. People under the power
of Satan as the Evil King and Prostitute of Babylon, attack RM-RW relationships.
These people will be punished for violating the sanctity of the RM-RW relationship.
5. Reversionism under the
Cycles of National Cursing desecrates the RM-RW relationship (Deut
28:30; Job 31:10; Jer 6:12; 38:22-23; 8:10; Hos 2:13; 1 Cor 6:18).
6. Stripping off the skirts
and exposing nakedness are idioms for Divine punishment for carnality,
promiscuity, and desecration of RM-RW relationships (Isa 47:2-3; Jer 13:22-23,
26; Ezek 16:37; Nah 3:5).
7. Lack of sanctification
of RM and RW leads to sexual abuse, adultery, and rape in the Fifth Cycle
of Discipline of a nation (2 Sam 12:11; Jer 2:34; Lam 1:8, 9, 17; Ezek
24:13).